If you can afford it, make reservations at an upscale restaurant of your choice. Prior to going out to dinner spend time making an honor list for your spouse. Begin writing down everything you can about what makes your spouse valuable and lovable. What do you cherish about him/her? Dress up for this date night. Make it classy. During dinner honor your spouse by revealing the list. Read them to him/her. After the date is over, begin adding to the honor list on a regular basis.